I remember 15 years ago I was in the delivery room with a
good friend of mine. I remember her
labor progressing rather quickly. The nurses
kept coming in to check to see how much she had dilated and I remember
Christy (my friend) saying she was ready to push. The nurses told her just a few minutes let’s
wait on the doctor to get here. Christy
was screaming and said he better hurry up cause this baby is coming. Well Christy couldn’t wait any longer and the
baby’s head was crowning. She began to
push and the nurses were yelling telling her to wait. Her husband began to get upset cause he felt
as if they were trying to push the baby back in (sounds crazy right, but it did
seem that way). By the time the doctor
came in the nurses was holding on to the baby and the doctor came in just in
time to suction the mouth and cut the cord.
This experience made me wondered what if there could have been
complications like the cord around the baby’s neck. Maybe that is why the nurse wanted her to
wait. I know that many children are born
without the assistance of a doctor, but it is vital to a baby’s development that
it is born in the presence of a doctor, midwife or other health care
professionals in case of any complications or emergencies.
I researched
births in South Africa. I read some of
the women suffered from horrific birthing experiences. Women
experience verbal and physical abuse. They were pinched, slapped, and handled roughly during
labor. Nurses continuously ignored calls for help. After
delivery, the mother and baby are left unattended for very long periods. Women
are discharged inappropriately. Women
sent home with no antibiotics or
pain medication. Women in labor women
were refused admission, they were not even examined. Women sent home after
Cesarean section with no medications, painkillers, antibiotics, etc.
Upon reading this I believe that Christy’s experience wasn’t
as bad as I thought it was. Although I felt the nurses were harsh, she and
her child did receive the proper care after the birth. When she buzzed for the nurses they were
there for her. She received meds as needed and the baby was
properly cared for until her release. The maternal mortality rate is high in South
Africa and it is due to the mistreatment of women giving births.